Thursday, February 20, 2014

How to Prepare



    As a 14 year old Mia Maid, I knew I wanted to go on a mission. Now all of us don’t discover our mission dreams when we are 14, and honestly, when the time came for me to be able to go at 21, I didn’t want to go at first.  I had a boyfriend, life was good: well that is another story. It is important to prepare physically, spiritually, and mentally/emotionally for your mission.  There were some things I did to prepare, and some that I wished I had done. 
Here we go!

Physically
·         Exercise
30 minutes every day even if it is just walking

 If you haven’t learned to ride a bike…now would be a good time
You can also practice in a skirt and different techniques to cinch up your skirt so it doesn’t get caught somewhere in the bike and send you flying.
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     Learn to deal with bugs…just in case
Mosquitoes....love...me....













Spiritually
·         Read your scriptures everyday
Not only is this a commandment but you will seriously need some armor now that you have decided to be a missionary.  You will find opposition, but hold on to the rod.  Besides the protection, an Angel told Nephi that scriptures lead you to feel the love of God which is “most joyous to the soul.”  That is so much better than ice cream or your favorite desert.



·         Pray
This is one of the best things you can do.  A suggestion from Elder Bednar is to write down the things you asked for in your morning prayers, and then thank Heavenly Father for everything he answered specifically at night.  You will be surprised how much he blesses us even when we mindlessly ask for things.

·         Read Preach My Gospel
Don’t only read it but write down your thoughts about it, live it!  You might consider practicing giving commitments.  For example: “insert name of loved one, will you take out the garbage?” …. “I promise you that when you take out the garbage our house will not stink and my appreciation for you will grow.”  You can also make commitments with yourself!  Set goals, they will change you, and that is what commitments are all about.

Emotionally
A mission is emotionally taxing.  Here are some things that you might experience that you might not have had to deal with before.
  •  Having an issue with someone but not being able to leave, walk away, or not be their friend
  • Loving someone so much, seeing them get baptized, and watching them fall away
  • Depression
  • Feeling like you are not doing all you can to share the gospel and wanting to do more,  but feeling like you physically and emotionally can’t
These are just a few, and don’t get me wrong, the mission is a most wonderful experience, but hard things do happen.  The best preparation I can give you here is to know Christ.  If you can come to understand the atonement, you will have sacred experiences where the Lord will deliver you out of the most deep dark hard places you have ever been.  That goes for life in general, but we are talking missions so here are a few reads I recommend.

The Atonement and the Journey of Mortality: David A. Bednar
Ask in Faith: David A. Bednar
Church website on preparing for a mission
Church site specifically for women wanting to serve

DOWN POUR!  I know! It looks like we just jumped into a swimming pool.

Last of all; just enjoy your family and your day to day life.  When you are out teaching others on your mission, you can draw from your life experiences to strengthen and help those around you.

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